The Social Side of Sound: Finding Friends Through Music

Often when people tell me they are interested in music lessons for their children, they share that they played while growing up but didn't stay connected to it and now, years later miss it with regret. What I have found is that the more students can work with a shared passion among peers (for children and adults alike), the deeper their interest, knowledge and retention will grow. 

We've all heard that music is a universal language but is it something that we actively participate in our daily lives? Because music transcends boundaries of many kinds it has the ability to refresh our communities by providing more connection with each other, oftentimes connection that we didn't know we were missing. 

Our goal at New Song Music Academy is that our lessons and group classes offer more than just technical instruction but truly provide a sense of community. When I was taking lessons from my piano teacher (who I adored for 10 years) she was my only connecting point with music for far too long. Once I got a bit older and began playing duets with other students and attended a school with other music students and teachers, my musical and social world opened up in a new way. 

Here are 3 areas to keep in mind along your musical education journey:

Teamwork and Collaboration

Group classes are particularly beneficial for forging friendships. Students learn to collaborate, support each other, and work towards a common goal—like perfecting a piece for a recital. This shared experience creates a bond that's hard to break. They learn to listen to each other, offer constructive feedback, and celebrate each other’s successes. This teamwork not only improves their musical skills but also teaches them valuable social skills that translate into lasting friendships.

Miriam Morales teaching Music Class at Dunbar Elementary in Partnership with Boys & Girls Club of Greater Dallas.

Overcoming Social Anxiety

For students who might be shy or struggle with social anxiety, music classes can be a safe and welcoming environment. The focus is on the music, not on individual social pressures. As they engage in musical activities, they start to feel more comfortable and gradually open up. The shared joy of creating music together can break down barriers and help them form friendships organically.

Creating Lasting Memories

Think about all the memories created during rehearsals, performances, and even those challenging practice sessions. These shared experiences become stories they tell each other for years to come. They laugh about mistakes, celebrate triumphs, and create a rich tapestry of shared memories that strengthens their friendships. This community provides support, encouragement, and a place where they truly belong. When they find their tribe, they feel more confident, connected, and happier.

Music is not just about notes and scales; it’s about connection and communication. Enrolling your child in music lessons or group classes does more than just teach them an instrument; it opens doors to new friendships and a supportive community. The bonds formed through music can last a lifetime, making the experience all the more enriching. If you're looking for a way to help your child build meaningful relationships and explore their creativity, it might just be found through music.